Unique Ideas For Your Flower Girl & Ring Bearer

Often seen as the CUTEST members of a wedding party, the Flower Girl and Ring Bearer are often also the YOUNGEST members of a wedding party! However, we are now seeing many more couples opt to have this role filled by an adult and even an animal! If you’re interested in having a Flower Girl(s) and/or a Ring Bearer(s) at your wedding, but don’t know any children that you could include in your wedding party, we hope this blog will provide you with ideas for the members you could include instead as well as items to wear/hold for your Flower Girl and Ring Bearer! 

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Flower Man 

A grown adult, typically a best guy friend or brother, a flower man can add fun and playfulness to your wedding processional! Especially if you select a song that will allow your Flower Man to show off their dance moves and style when showering the aisle with petals, it will definitely be an entertaining moment for your guests before the bride’s grand entrance!  

Ring Security Guards 

A grown adult or adults, you could have one or multiple men or women act as your Ring Security guards. Dressed like a member of the secret service with a briefcase instead of a ring pillow, your ring security can be one way to include certain people into your wedding party that you would want included in a unique way, rather than as a bridesmaid or groomsmen. 

Flower Tutus

As Tutu means grandparents in Hawaiian, your flower tutu could be you and your significant others’ grandparents! This is a sweet way to include a few of the oldest and wisest members of your family into your special day! 


Ring Pupper  

Not a bearer but an actual pupper! The role of your ring bearer can be filled by your furry friend! Though they may not actually hold the ring, you can include your dog into your processional as the ring bearer as well as in all of your wedding party photos! 

Items for your Flower Girl or Ring Bearer to Wear/Hold

  • Signs with funny messages on them such as “Has Anyone Seen the Rings?” 

  • Ring box carved out of wood

  • Classic Flower Basket

  • Flower Crowns and Leis

  • Ring Security Box