Wedding Party Roles & Duties on Your Wedding Day

As you plan your wedding day, one of the exciting tasks is assembling your wedding party! This special group of friends and family members will stand by your side as you exchange vows and celebrate the beginning of your married life. Each member of the wedding party plays a significant role in ensuring your day runs smoothly and is filled with joy. Here's a breakdown of the typical roles and duties of the wedding party:

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Maid of Honor/Best Man:

  • The maid of honor and best man are often the closest friends or siblings of the couple. They serve as the chief support for the bride and groom throughout the wedding planning process and on the big day itself.

  • Duties may include organizing the bachelorette/bachelor parties, assisting with wedding planning tasks, and offering emotional support to the couple.

  • On the wedding day, the maid of honor and best man are responsible for helping the couple get ready, holding the rings, giving a toast, and ensuring the wedding party stays on schedule.

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Bridesmaids/Groomsmen:

  • Bridesmaids and groomsmen are typically close friends and siblings of the couple who stand alongside them at the altar.

  • Prior to the wedding day, they may help with various tasks such as addressing invitations, attending dress fittings, and participating in pre-wedding events.

  • On the wedding day, bridesmaids and groomsmen assist with pre-ceremony preparations, help guests, participate in the processional, and contribute to a fun and celebratory atmosphere.

Flower Girl/Ring Bearer:

  • The flower girl and ring bearer are often young family members who add an extra touch of sweetness to the wedding ceremony.

  • Their primary role is to walk down the aisle, scattering flower petals or carrying the rings, symbolizing the couple's commitment to each other.

  • Depending on their age, they may need adult supervision and guidance throughout the day.

We’ve recently seen an increase trend of couples having their pets in this role! Though they will need a handler as a member of your wedding party, your doggo can also walk down the aisle on your special day!



Junior Bridesmaids/ Groomsmen:

  • If the couple has younger family members who are too old to be flower girls or ring bearers but too young to be full bridesmaids or groomsmen, they can be designated as junior bridesmaids or groomsmen.

  • Their duties are typically similar to those of the adult attendants, but adjusted to accommodate their age and capabilities.

Photography: Visionari

As you consider who you'd like to include in your wedding party, it's important to choose individuals who are not only dear to you but who are also reliable, supportive, and willing to take on the responsibilities associated with their roles. Effective communication and gratitude for their participation will help ensure a positive and memorable experience for everyone involved!

At A Perfect Day Hawaii, we understand the significance of each wedding party member and their contributions to your special day. From the meticulously planned ceremony to the joyous celebrations that follow, we'll work with you to ensure that your wedding party and all your loved ones feel appreciated and valued. Cheers to the beginning of your happily ever after!

XOXOXO

(A Perfect Day)

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