All About Classic Wedding Traditions & Superstitions

Planning a wedding involves making numerous decisions, from the venue and the menu to the wedding dress and the music. In this modern age, couples often strive to create a wedding that reflects their unique style and individuality. However, amidst all the modern planning, many couples still embrace classic wedding traditions and superstitions that have been passed down through generations. These customs add an aura of meaning, magic, and mystery to the big day, making it even more special and memorable. Let's explore some of these time-honored traditions and superstitions that continue to weave their charm into weddings today!

Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue

Perhaps one of the most well-known wedding traditions, this saying has been etched into the hearts of couples for centuries. It captures the idea of incorporating specific items into the wedding outfit to bring good luck and a happy marriage.

  • The "something old" symbolizes continuity with the past and is often an heirloom, a cherished piece of jewelry, or a relative's garment.

  • The "something new" represents optimism for the future and is generally something the bride buys or receives as a gift.

  • The "something borrowed" serves as a symbol of borrowed happiness, often borrowed from a happily married friend or family member.

  • The "something blue" represents purity, love, and fidelity. Brides often incorporate a blue ribbon or a piece of blue jewelry or even blue shoes discreetly into their attire to honor this tradition, embracing these deeper meanings.

The White Wedding Dress

The white wedding dress, a classic symbol of purity and innocence, is a tradition that has stood the test of time. It was popularized by Queen Victoria, who wore a white gown for her wedding to Prince Albert in 1840. Prior to that, brides would wear dresses in different colors. Today, the white dress has become an iconic tradition, although many modern brides are also embracing alternative colors or incorporating touches of color to add a personalized twist to this tradition!

The Bridal Veil

Originating from ancient Rome, the tradition of the bridal veil carries captivating symbolism. It was believed that brides wore veils to protect themselves from evil spirits, as these malicious entities were thought to be jealous of the bride's happiness. With time, the veil became a representation of purity, modesty, and the groom's anticipation as he lifts it to unveil his beloved. Whether a bride chooses to don a veil or opt for a different headpiece, the tradition encapsulates a sense of reverence for the connection between past, present, and future!


Tossing the Bouquet and Garter

The tradition of the bride tossing her bouquet and the groom removing and tossing the garter have early roots in England. It was thought that obtaining a piece of the bride's clothing would bring good fortune. To protect the bride from eager guests, the bouquet and garter toss became a fun way to engage everyone. The single lady who catches the bouquet is believed to be the next to get married, while the man who catches the garter is considered to be the next groom. Although this tradition may seem lighthearted, many couples today still partake in this playful custom at their wedding reception to share joy and spread hope!

Photography: Bianca Photography

Rain on Your Wedding Day: Good Luck or Bad Omen?

Rain on your wedding day is often considered a symbol of good luck, despite the common belief that rain signifies bad omens. It is believed that rain brings blessings, cleansing, and fertility - all auspicious elements to start a marriage. Interestingly, in Hawaiian culture, rain is a sign of the presence of ancestors, further adding depth to the symbolism and is a good luck symbol on your special day! Rather than fretting over a drizzle, couples embracing this superstition can cherish the belief that their union is being blessed by the heavens!

Photography: E + E Photography

While modernity has opened up a myriad of possibilities for couples to personalize their wedding day, classic wedding traditions and superstitions continue to hold a special place in the hearts of many. These age-old customs bring significance, beauty, and a touch of enchantment to the occasion. Incorporating elements such as "something old, something new," the white wedding dress, the bridal veil, or the tossing of the bouquet and garter adds layers of meaning and keeps the flame of tradition burning bright. So, whether you choose to fully immerse yourself in these customs or put your own twist on them, there's no denying the magic and allure they bring to your perfect day!

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