These are 2 questions we frequently hear and although our perspective and response to these questions may be unique to A Perfect Day, if it helps someone, we’re happy to share!
PC: Derek Wong Photography
To discuss the first question: “Is Planning a Wedding Really that Hard?“ No, at least we don’t think so. This is evident in the fact that most couples are looking for what has been called a “day of” planner versus “full coordination”. We have found that the couples seeking “full coordination” are doing so usually because they don’t have the time to plan a wedding or often times don’t live here and are unfortunately scared into thinking the disconnection puts them at a higher risk of being taken advantage of. Both reasons have nothing to do with the ability to do with the mental capacity of being able to plan it. With technology only getting better with each day that passes, planning a wedding locally or from off island really isn’t much different anymore. Sure, you can’t taste the food or touch fabrics unless you are in person but the great news is that since Oahu is such a popular destination for weddings, our industry has adapted.
PC: Kai Photo
To discuss the second question: “Do I need a Wedding Planner?“ Again, our answer would be “No”. We feel our job is to relieve stress, anxiety, to guide our clients through their wedding day as smoothly as possible as well as to prevent and troubleshoot undesired situations. For that reason, if you aren’t worried about anything and are okay with or even prefer to do all the troubleshooting personally on your wedding day, then you probably don’t need a Wedding Planner :-).
Happy Planning!
XOXO A Perfect Day